More important than the words I've written is what I've learned about the best method to write. Best for me that is. I couldn't keep writing because I didn't plan my NaNo project well enough, because I didn't know the characters well enough to know how they'd react to the situations I put them in, because I hadn't started writing them, because the plan wasn't complete. That sounds like a vicious circle, but it isn't really – not unless I'm trying to write the entire first draft in one go. When I'm not attempting to do that, I can plan a bit and write it, then plan a bit more and write that, on and on until the end.
Another thing I've learned is that I can write seven short stories in a month if it'll get me out of writing something else. Hmmm, maybe in December I'll add a big chunk to the novel in order to get out of writing short stories?
Most importantly though, I'm learning not to feel insecure because I'm not succeeding in the same way as other writers. If we judge ourselves against others, there will always be someone who writes more words, or submits more work, or sells more, or gets better reviews, or earns more, or something.
Instead I'm going to judge myself against the me of the previous month. The current me has written more, submitted more and sold more than the old me. The Insecure Writer's Support Group hasn't lost a member though – I'm not sure any writers ever totally overcome all their insecurities.
How about you? Did you 'win' NaNo? Do something else with your time? Has the current version of you added to the achievements of the you from last month?